Let's get real here. First of all, this case is fairly unusual (I assume).
I don't know if you have sons, but in all honesty...
...tell us how, when they were (or will be) 14, you will call them aside and somberly instruct them, "Son, if a drop-dead gorgeous married woman ever hits on you, here is what you should do..." ??
Any more subtle alternative is literally impossible, and probably equally ineffective except for the abnormal.
Thou shalt not commit adultery. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors' wife.
...tell us how, when they were (or will be) 14, you will call them aside and somberly instruct them, "Son, if a drop-dead gorgeous married woman ever hits on you, here is what you should do..." ??
"..tell us how, when they were (or will be) 14, you will call them aside and somberly instruct them, "Son, if a drop-dead gorgeous married woman ever hits on you, here is what you should do..." ??"
You like throwing hand grenades, don't you?
My son, at the age of 14, will already have heard 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 read and preached on at least 10 times in the church he attends every single Sunday, as well as have been instructed thoroughly in Christian morality in preparation for his Confirmation.
Besides this formal instruction, he will have grown up in a household where mom and dad honor their marriage commitments and hold them to be a sacred and essential part of his home life.
If I actually have to take him aside at the age of 14 and explain to him that adultery is wrong and that married women are off limits then I've wasted 14 years of his life up to that point.