[goldstategop]

Yep. That's a lot of men like me are still single. What's the upside to marriage if you get divorced in five years and find yourself paying child support for a kid you will never see for the rest of your life? Its a lousy deal and for men a series of casual relationships is the less riskier road to satisfaction. No kids, no mess, no financial drain and when the woman decides she's had enough of the man, he can move on without the headache of a divorce. Women want men but they're not sure they want to commit to marrying a real man. When they do, they can give us a call. We've been right here all along.

("Denny Crane: Gun Control? For Communists. She's a liberal. Can't hunt.")

[Help!]

My daughter will never call you. She was raised to be an old-fashioned girl; she was forbidden from calling guys. She spends a lot of time protecting her 40 year old female boss from the losers she meets on the internet. Daughter is smart, thin, georgeous, virgin 20 year old - has horses; doesn't need guys....yet.

Son is 23 years old, college grad, tennis player. In his second year of a good-paying job with a big-name company. Considering law school. Has a nice girlfriend, but not quite ready for committment. Will make a great dad.

Been with current hubby since 1974. I've had a career as an HR manager with same employer for almost 30 years.

It's been a pretty good life....