Ah, well...stupider people than J. Lynch have served their country willingly, as she did, and gotten more than they bargained for. And are respected for it.
Why, when I was in grade school there was this boy who used to chase me home, cheat on tests, talk back to teachers and one day he even humped a coatrack in the schoolroom and laughed about it, and that was in 1959. But when he came back from Viet Nam in '67 with one less leg, I stopped saying unkind things about him for the next 38 years until now, and believe me he was a real assclown.
Therefore I have nothing unkind to utter aloud about J. Lynch. She's been through some serious crap, and it could take years to mature and sort it out.
I can hear it now:
"Sargeant, you got a lot a damn gall to ask me... if I'm moral enough join the army, burn women, kids, houses and villages after humpin' a coatrack."