If they could just shut the heck up about their sex lives then they can join. Is that so difficult????
I usually don't care about my co workers intimate affairs. There have been so many stories of men and women who have proudly served in our military, and after retirement announced they were gay. A former commander in Special Ops accepted a job in April with the Library of Congress(I think), and shocked everyone when he announced his intention to begin his new job-after his military retirement-as a WOMAN. A dress and makeup wearing woman. THEY said no way, and now he is working with the ACLU to keep his job. Guess he had enough sense not to show up for work while in Special Ops with lipstick and blush on.
But they want you to know how much better they are than you.