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Ire aimed at handcuffed girl's mother
St. Petersburg Times ^ | April 30, 2005 | THOMAS C. TOBIN

Posted on 04/30/2005 1:01:01 AM PDT by Cincinatus' Wife

ST. PETERSBURG - Largo lawyer John Trevena correctly predicted that outrage would follow his release last week of the now-famous videotape.

Three police officers handcuffing a crying 5-year-old girl in braids, white socks and a neatly pressed tan dress? It was a stunning abuse of power, he concluded. A legal "no brainer."

What he did not expect was that people would view the 28-minute tape and direct so much of their anger at someone who wasn't even on it - the girl's mother, Inga M. Akins.

"I fully expected some backlash," said Trevena, who has since been fired by Akins. "But not to the degree and volume which occurred in this case."

From cable television shows to Internet chat rooms to talk radio programs across the nation, the 24-year-old St. Petersburg mother of three became a magnet for public scorn.

The disapproval is unfair, said Trevena and others, including a high-profile Florida law firm that has come to Akins' aid.

But critics have pointed to video images of her daughter ripping papers from bulletin boards, throwing items from desks and swinging at school staffers who tried to calm her.

Some said Akins was a bad parent. Some said she should be put in jail. Others bristled when she blamed her daughter's behavior on a school administrator at Fairmount Park Elementary, where the handcuffing took place March 14. Many faulted Akins for hiring a lawyer and for selling her daughter's story to the tabloid television show, A Current Affair.

She also has been roundly criticized for the perception she did not get to the school fast enough when the office called her to say her daughter was having a tantrum.

In a public drama with a real life cast of characters - the embattled assistant principal, the crying classroom teacher, the tough-talking police officer, the irascible kindergartener - Akins' role as the serious single mom seeking justice for her child has been widely panned.

Even in corners where Akins might have expected to draw unqualified support, she did not. In separate news conferences Thursday to denounce the handcuffing, civic leaders, ministers and retired educators in St. Petersburg's black community listed Akins, who is black, as one of the players who helped things go awry.

Clifton Burney, a retired social worker active in efforts to improve education for black children, said: "I firmly believe that this is a case of child abuse, not only by the school system or the police, but the parent."

He added: "I know these are strong words." But all three parties, he said, need to find ways to ensure children "behave in a respectable way in school."

* * *

Weeks before the tape was released, Akins sensed that people were blaming her for the incident.

In an interview March 17 with the St. Petersburg Times, she said of school officials and police: "They're trying to make it seem like I'm a bad person and I'm not. But it's going to all come back on them."

Since traveling to New York last week to tape shows for A Current Affair, Akins has limited her public statements to the program.

On Monday evening's show, she said problems between her daughter and the assistant principal, Nicole Debenedetto, forced her hand. "I tried getting her school changed. I tried getting her class changed. (The school district) wouldn't do anything to help me."

On Tuesday, one of the show's reporters asked Akins what she learned from the case. "Listen to your kids because they are telling the truth," she said. "Because I sure listened to mine. And what she was telling me was the truth."

On Wednesday, Akins appeared with Jesse Jackson, who asked her, "What are you doing now about it, Inga?"

She responded: "Trying to get legal representation. And I ask for you to help."

On Thursday, Akins made several comments.

On her daughter: "She's a very active child. She loves to read and write."

On people who blame her: "I don't care what they say. It's not my fault. It's the School Board and the St. Pete Police Department's fault."

On whether the girl was raised correctly: "She was raised right. She was raised very well."

On those who say she's trying to make money from the case: "Get paid for what? I want justice."

Asked what she tells her daughter now, Akins said: "I tell her to try to keep her head up. There's going to be bigger and better things."

Tim Green, smiling host for A Current Affair, signed off: "Sweet little girl. And, Inga, you're a good mom."

* * *

In addition to the 5-year-old girl, Akins has a son, 4, and another daughter, 3. Pinellas court records show she has been trying without success to collect child support from two St. Petersburg men who are the fathers of the children. The father of the 5-year-old has been arrested more than a dozen times since 1995, mostly on drug charges.

Akins is a certified nursing assistant at a Seminole retirement complex, where a supervisor declined to be interviewed for this story.

In 2002, records show, St. Petersburg police stopped Akins on Fourth Street N for driving a car with a stolen license plate, a misdemeanor. She was taken to jail, but went to jail two more times on the same charge because of missed court appearances.

She later paid a fine.

Records also show that around the time of her daughter's handcuffing, Akins was in the throes of an eviction proceeding with the owners of her St. Petersburg apartment. A note she wrote to the court indicates the problem involved subsidized rent payments from the St. Petersburg Housing Authority.

In a recent interview, Akins said the arrest prompted the state Department of Children and Families to investigate her. She said he passed a DCF review. "The focus should not be on her background; it should be on whether police acted appropriately when they handcuffed a 5-year-old child in kindergarten as if she were a criminal," said (Tricia) C.K. Hoffler, a partner with the law firm of Gary, Williams, Parenti, Finney, Lewis, McManus, Watson & Sperando, which on Thursday became Akins' new legal representative.

The 37-lawyer firm based in Stuart, is led by Willie E. Gary, whose nickname "The Giant Killer" came from nine-figure judgments against such titans as Anheuser-Busch and Disney.

Hoffler said the firm is preparing to bring its considerable resources to bear on the case.

* * *

Several of Akins' former neighbors at the apartment complex said they didn't know her well because she left early for work and came home late.

"She was a "good morning, good afternoon' kind of person," said Mariveth Rodriguez, 34, a stay-at-home mom whose children sometimes played with Akins' children.

Neighbors said they did not consider Akins' oldest girl a discipline problem.

Rodriguez said Akins' two daughters sometimes came to play with her children on the back patio, and "they were very well-behaved."

She said she is disturbed by talk-show pundits who have criticized Akins' parenting skills.

"I think they were good people," she said. Asked about the 5-year-old's tantrum, Rodriguez said, "she didn't act like that over here."

In a police report on the handcuffing, officers said Akins arrived at the school March 14, stormed to one of the police cruisers and yelled, "Why is my daughter in a police car?"

Officers said they twice directed the upset mother away from school officials they were trying to interview. The girl's great-grandparents also showed up at the school and argued with police.

Officers eventually released the girl to Akins.

"I immediately recognized that it was a wrongful arrest," Trevena said, citing laws that young children do not have the ability to participate in their defense and thus are legally incompetent.

Akins fired Trevena this week in a fax sent from the offices of A Current Affair. Now he believes her claim against the city of St. Petersburg has been "severely compromised," saying juries are reluctant to award damages to people seen as trying to exploit a case for money.

"I believe she's an inexperienced and unsophisticated young woman who is being taken advantage of by a tabloid TV show," Trevena said.

The lawyer said public criticism of her parenting skills was "grossly unfair."

"The fact with this mother is that we simply don't know what the family situation is," Trevena said. "She may be the best mother on the planet."

Times staff writers Alex Leary and Curtis Krueger contributed to this report


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; Government; US: Florida
KEYWORDS: education; handcuffedgirl
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1 posted on 04/30/2005 1:01:02 AM PDT by Cincinatus' Wife
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

"There's going to be bigger and better things."
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2 posted on 04/30/2005 1:10:07 AM PDT by poobear
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To: Cincinatus' Wife
Mom, 5-year-old girl in video fires lawyer, moving out of state

Watch out kid, the next scam might involve you donating a finger for a bowl of Wendy's chili.
3 posted on 04/30/2005 1:10:56 AM PDT by Mad Mammoth
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To: poobear; Mad Mammoth

***........In addition to the 5-year-old girl, Akins has a son, 4, and another daughter, 3. Pinellas court records show she has been trying without success to collect child support from two St. Petersburg men who are the fathers of the children. The father of the 5-year-old has been arrested more than a dozen times since 1995, mostly on drug charges.

Akins is a certified nursing assistant at a Seminole retirement complex, where a supervisor declined to be interviewed for this story.

In 2002, records show, St. Petersburg police stopped Akins on Fourth Street N for driving a car with a stolen license plate, a misdemeanor. She was taken to jail, but went to jail two more times on the same charge because of missed court appearances.

She later paid a fine.

Records also show that around the time of her daughter's handcuffing, Akins was in the throes of an eviction proceeding with the owners of her St. Petersburg apartment. A note she wrote to the court indicates the problem involved subsidized rent payments from the St. Petersburg Housing Authority.

In a recent interview, Akins said the arrest prompted the state Department of Children and Families to investigate her. She said he passed a DCF review. "The focus should not be on her background; it should be on whether police acted appropriately when they handcuffed a 5-year-old child in kindergarten as if she were a criminal," said (Tricia) C.K. Hoffler, a partner with the law firm of Gary, Williams, Parenti, Finney, Lewis, McManus, Watson & Sperando, which on Thursday became Akins' new legal representative.

The 37-lawyer firm based in Stuart, is led by Willie E. Gary, whose nickname "The Giant Killer" came from nine-figure judgments against such titans as Anheuser-Busch and Disney.

Hoffler said the firm is preparing to bring its considerable resources to bear on the case. ........***


4 posted on 04/30/2005 1:13:26 AM PDT by Cincinatus' Wife
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

WOW!! Just Damn!!


5 posted on 04/30/2005 1:20:16 AM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (Matthew 16:18)
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

Sounds like the mom feels she has hit the 'mother lode'. On the other hand, the only qualification of her being a mom is probably her DNA.


6 posted on 04/30/2005 1:22:28 AM PDT by poobear
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

"...she's an inexperienced and unsophisticated young woman who is being taken advantage of..."

She may also be an inexperienced and unsophisticated young woman taking advantage of the situation by exploiting her daughters story.

By all accounts, it appears the mother carries at least some of the blame for her daughters behavior. But to be fair, we should not discount the fact that the absent fathers in this case are responsible as well. God created both mother AND father for a great reason.


7 posted on 04/30/2005 1:22:59 AM PDT by This Just In ((In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king))
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To: Mad Mammoth
LOL

Ouch !!!

8 posted on 04/30/2005 1:28:41 AM PDT by Deetes (Speak Softly and Carry a Big Stick)
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

What? You mean the liberal news media's campaign to make her the new Rodney King isn't working?


9 posted on 04/30/2005 1:39:52 AM PDT by MisterRepublican
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To: This Just In
When children act out like the child in the tape, you can bet there are "issues" at home. Every child goes through a similar stage, but it usually ends around 2-3yrs old. By the time you reach 5, you should be saying please and thank you, no sir and yes sir. If not, there is insufficient parenting at home. The nanny shows on TV are disturbing trends in American culture today. Do you see children in 3rd world countries acting out this way? Nope, they still spank!

We are raising a generation of narcissistic, atheistic, anarchists.

10 posted on 04/30/2005 1:40:29 AM PDT by chuckles
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.......On Wednesday, Akins appeared with Jesse Jackson, who asked her, "What are you doing now about it, Inga?" ....

He smells money.

11 posted on 04/30/2005 1:42:21 AM PDT by Cincinatus' Wife
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To: Cincinatus' Wife
O.K., I'll say it... would he even care if... never mind.-
12 posted on 04/30/2005 1:46:19 AM PDT by poobear
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

This gal is as fishy as lutefisk.


13 posted on 04/30/2005 1:47:20 AM PDT by drlevy88
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To: chuckles
By the time you reach 5, you should be saying please and thank you, no sir and yes sir.

Exactly. My Mom was sweet and fun-loving.......but we kids were very aware of the plastic hairbrush she carried in her purse at all times. LOL

14 posted on 04/30/2005 2:07:56 AM PDT by LaineyDee (Don't mess with Texas .....wimmen!)
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To: drlevy88

Well, at least we know why the child has a behavioral problems.
And it doesn't look like it's going to be corrected anytime soon. She's a "victim".


15 posted on 04/30/2005 2:16:56 AM PDT by Nathan Zachary
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To: Cincinatus' Wife

I saw the video and I think that after they handcuffed her they should have put her across the knee and given her an old fasion spanking. Spare the rod, spoil the child. Let's face it, the kid is a brat that needs more than handcuffing.


16 posted on 04/30/2005 2:55:08 AM PDT by garylmoore (God Bless you W, you have prevailed.)
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To: Cincinatus' Wife
Trevena said. "She may be the best mother on the planet."

wow... well, MY mother raised two kids on her own for eight years, both by the same father, never went to jail, never associated with drug users/dealers, neither I nor my sister ever had this kind of disciplinary problem in kindergarten or elementary school, oh - and my mother can speak proper English (which this woman, as one can tell by listening to her taped remarks rather than reading a heavily redacted hardcopy, clearly cannot)... what does that make her, the best mother in the Universe?

geesh, what a dumbass remark... even for a lawyer.

17 posted on 04/30/2005 2:57:25 AM PDT by King Prout (blast and char it among fetid buzzard guts!)
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Two wrongs make a right?

Whether or not she is mother of the year is only one of a few issues in this case.

What are the school's policies for dealing with such a situation? Has the addiction to federal funding (based on number of pupils, attendance, and special needs students) compromised public schools desire to actually resolve conduct problems?

The school will request federal funding for counseling all parties involved. With the police having been called, the girl will be classified as a "special need", thus, the school will qualify for additional federal dollars.

The local police will now request more federal dollars based on their need to patrol the schools.

The only fool involved is the taxpayer. The mom, school, and police just need to work out the details of how much money each party will get.
18 posted on 04/30/2005 3:51:06 AM PDT by usa1776
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Two wrongs make a right?

and to what of my post does this refer? I lambasted a lawyer's trite natterings. Justly so.

19 posted on 04/30/2005 4:00:59 AM PDT by King Prout (blast and char it among fetid buzzard guts!)
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................ The mom, school, and police just need to work out the details of how much money each party will get.

Don't forget the lawyers.

***......The 37-lawyer firm based in Stuart, is led by Willie E. Gary, whose nickname "The Giant Killer" came from nine-figure judgments against such titans as Anheuser-Busch and Disney. Hoffler said the firm is preparing to bring its considerable resources to bear on the case. ....***

20 posted on 04/30/2005 4:02:38 AM PDT by Cincinatus' Wife
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