Michael Schiavo should have accepted the money and then turned around and given it to the Schindler's for Terri's care - seeing as how he SQUANDERED ALL OF THE JUDGMENT MONEY ON LEGAL STUFF TO KILL TERRI.
I think both sides are to blame.
BTW, quite a while back Gloria Allred spoke in favor of those who wanted to keep Terri alive (might have been Greta's show) and said some wanted to remove the feeding tube of her father(?) removed and she opposed it and wouldn't allow it.