You totally left out the forgiveness by God part. And I assume from your post you don't believe in moral absolutes, right and wrong. And I, nor Dr. Dobson in the article, EVER said anybody was hellbound for anything. By the way, are you a public school teacher?
The absolutes in the bible says the adulters, thiefs, liars and so on are hellbound. Both new and old testament. Both prior and after Christ's death and the offer of grace.
No, I am not a teacher. But if we are going to make absolutes, then let's make absolutes.