With an attitude like this, one hopes none of your relatives will have to suffer under care.
Sad thread ping.
Many of my relatives had Alzheimer's and WE TOOK CARE OF THEM. We didn't farm them out to an old age WAREHOUSE to be neglected and die and NONE of them were violent.
How dare you point your finger at ME.
OTOH, you sound like the typical cantankerous hypocrite.