Simple: drop AOL. Parental control software is inexpensive, or even free. Go to tucows.com or a similar site and you'll probably find a bunch of free downloads.
Yeah, I agree it's time to trash AOL. I would really like them to know why as I go, though. I know if I call, I'm going to get some teenager who could care less why I'm cancelling and will simply snap her gum and answer "ah huh" until she offers me 90 free days. I guess I can't expect them to care, but I'm just SICK of their constant headlines on their news page blatantly supporting Kerry and trashing President Bush.
Go get a DIRECWAY satellite system and tell AOL, Comcast, and the rest of the cast of characters.... BYE, BYE!!