[Vision]

however I do know a number of women who put themselves through college by dancing, or waitressing, at topless or nudie clubs and are now upstanding citizens that ANY young women would do well to emulate.

You had me up until then

[Just another Joe]

Had you as in you were agreeing, or had you as in you understand?
What's so hard to believe about a woman putting herself through college by dancing at a nudie bar or waitressing at a topless club?
The fact that they can be an upstanding, moral citizen?
Sometimes you do what you have to to get someplace better. (As long as it's legal)
That's a fact of life that many people don't want to acknowledge.