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To: nickcarraway
When women commit to satisfying their men on demand, men will give up porn. When women quit withholding sex and avoiding sex, men will quit porn. When ugly and/or poor men get treated with love, and somehow marry, men will give up porn. When married women see areason to maintain their loooks after marriage, men will give up porn.
Step up to the plate ladies or quit knocking the competition.
11 posted on 02/12/2004 5:29:23 PM PST by Evil Inc
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To: Evil Inc
I'm not saying your post doesn't bear merit. However, from a Christian perspective, the issue of pornography is something that a man (or a woman) needs to talk to God about, agree with what He has to say about it, and then do what He says. It won't be easy, but again, from a Christian perspective, it takes the strength of the Lord to live the life of a Christian.

I agree that an unresponsive spouse is a frustrating situation, but adultery is adultery, whether its in the mind or the act. A man and wife are one flesh, and when he (or she) defiles himself, he's defiling her (as well as the rest of the Body as well as the recipient of the thought).

I'm not trying to sound "holier than thou" because I've been both a porn viewer (repentant & forgiven) as well as a broken-hearted spouse (who has also been forgiven).
16 posted on 02/12/2004 5:52:21 PM PST by ironmaidenPR2717 ("Reality is merely an illusion, albeit, a very persistent one." Albert Einstein)
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To: Evil Inc
When women commit to satisfying their men on demand, men will give up porn. When women quit withholding sex and avoiding sex, men will quit porn. When ugly and/or poor men get treated with love, and somehow marry, men will give up porn. When married women see areason to maintain their loooks after marriage, men will give up porn.

Maybe some men. I NEVER held back on my ex-husband- I was accomodating and adventurous. Even he will admit that. My looks did NOT go. After having two children with him, I maintained my figure and my looks. My ex is/was a porn addict. Nothing I did was enough for him. He still had to have his porn- and sneak and lie about it.

17 posted on 02/12/2004 5:53:15 PM PST by conservative cat
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To: Evil Inc
It's not about what the ladies want.

It's what God wants: a Holy People.

20 posted on 02/12/2004 6:07:48 PM PST by happygrl
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To: Evil Inc
When women commit to satisfying their men on demand, men will give up porn. When women quit withholding sex and avoiding sex, men will quit porn.

There are a number of Christian women who need to pay a little more attention to 1 Corinthians 7, verses 3 and 4. WAY too many of them are taught that "sex is dirty".

29 posted on 02/12/2004 6:40:32 PM PST by who knows what evil? (Under the personal care of the Great Physician...full coverage.)
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To: Evil Inc
Evil- It is very hard for women.

There is such a mixed message between Whore/Madonna many women find themselves in that "rock" and *ahem* "hard place".

Make the woman in your life feel good about her sexuality.

This Valentine's Day find her porn that is made for women!!

30 posted on 02/12/2004 6:41:35 PM PST by Aeon Flux ("What does not kill us, makes us stranger" ...Trevor Goodchild)
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To: Evil Inc
When women commit to satisfying their men on demand, men will give up porn. When women quit withholding sex and avoiding sex, men will quit porn. When ugly and/or poor men get treated with love, and somehow marry, men will give up porn. When married women see areason to maintain their loooks after marriage, men will give up porn.

You must have spent your entire life in a convent.

Porn won't go away that easily. You don't grasp the nature of males.

However, a Christian man should be able to overcome all things through faith. So I'm not excusing it.
46 posted on 02/12/2004 8:33:08 PM PST by George W. Bush (It's the Congress, stupid.)
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To: Evil Inc
Oh man, I hope you wore your kevlar, ( I agree with you, but...)
66 posted on 02/16/2004 6:46:28 AM PST by Lord_Baltar
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