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Woman looking for a husband encouraged by ‘advice’ columnist to continue sleeping around to find ‘the one’
American Thinker ^ | 01/15/24 | Olivia Murray

Posted on 01/15/2024 9:51:55 AM PST by SeekAndFind

“Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the bling, both shall fall into the ditch.”

While scanning the news this morning, I came across a “Dear Abby” type column, in which a 29-year-old woman asked the “expert” about whether or not she needed to stop sleeping with men on the first date in order to find a husband with whom she could start a family; the conflicted woman had reached out after a friend had suggested that perhaps her inability to find a man pursuing her as a wife was because of her willingness to jump in the sack at every perceived “connection.” Here’s her initial inquiry, from the article:

I’m a 29-year-old woman and I’ve been dating for most of my 20s in the hope of finding a husband to have a family with.

However, my friend says that the reason I’m not finding a husband is because I’m too sexually available – she says I need to ‘keep the men wanting more’ and not sleep with them until at least 10 dates in. Surely this is an old-fashioned way of thinking? It’s 2024 after all!

Yes, it is 2024 after all, where feminism has reached a new level of chaos and nonsense, but still… I, like any reasonable person, expected a gentle “yes” from the so-called relationship “expert,” so I was genuinely shocked to read that the advice this young woman received actually encouraged her lifestyle choices of easy-riding (with the “expert” even referring to the suggestion that she wait for sex as “old-fashioned” and “misogynistic”), and I was quickly reminded of how unreasonable people can be, especially when these people are neo-feminists.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: fornication; husband; partner
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1 posted on 01/15/2024 9:51:55 AM PST by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind

I’m investing all of my money in boxed wine and cat toys.


2 posted on 01/15/2024 9:53:44 AM PST by EEGator
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To: SeekAndFind

From link:

Is having sex on the first date the reason I’m still single?

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Probably.....................


3 posted on 01/15/2024 9:57:53 AM PST by Red Badger (Homeless veterans camp in the streets while illegal aliens are put up in hotels.....................)
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To: EEGator

And chocolate mfrs........................


4 posted on 01/15/2024 9:58:24 AM PST by Red Badger (Homeless veterans camp in the streets while illegal aliens are put up in hotels.....................)
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To: SeekAndFind

5 posted on 01/15/2024 9:59:52 AM PST by Magnum44 (...against all enemies, foreign and domestic... )
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To: SeekAndFind

Why buy the cow if the milk is free?


6 posted on 01/15/2024 10:00:38 AM PST by smokingfrog ( sleep with one eye open (<o> --- )
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To: Red Badger

Solid choice.


7 posted on 01/15/2024 10:01:32 AM PST by EEGator
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To: SeekAndFind
she says I need to ‘keep the men wanting more’ and not sleep with them until at least 10 dates in.

How about keeping your legs closed until you're his WIFE???

"Old Fashioned"? Yeah ... it was good advice in 2024 BC, and it's still good advice in AD2024.

Here's some simple truth, lady: You're a slut. Men will penetrate a slut, but men won't marry a slut. Quit being a slut.

8 posted on 01/15/2024 10:01:57 AM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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To: EEGator

9 posted on 01/15/2024 10:04:55 AM PST by Red Badger (Homeless veterans camp in the streets while illegal aliens are put up in hotels.....................)
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To: Red Badger

LOL…

P.S. Scott Adams was right.


10 posted on 01/15/2024 10:06:06 AM PST by EEGator
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To: SeekAndFind

Sure. Every single man is just looking for a slut to marry.

Being promiscuous will help insure something permanent for a woman - a serious STD.


11 posted on 01/15/2024 10:10:17 AM PST by Gnome1949
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To: SeekAndFind
First you must decide whether your priority is your next best orgasm or a compatible spouse.

(They're not mutually exclusive, its just that the former should not be the priority)

If you're search is for a compatible spouse, you might start by looking for someone with similar values.

(This presumes you have some established values of your own, or at least values that you aspire to.)

12 posted on 01/15/2024 10:12:44 AM PST by G Larry ("XFKAT" We can't keep spelling out "X Formerly Known As Twitter"!)
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To: Magnum44

Exactly


13 posted on 01/15/2024 10:15:51 AM PST by dragonblustar (You best start believing in Bible prophecies, you're in one.)
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To: EEGator

Carousel rider.

Recreational use only.


14 posted on 01/15/2024 10:15:59 AM PST by TheWriterTX (🇺🇸✝️🙏🇮🇱)
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To: SeekAndFind

I do not like the term “sleeping around.”

This is a fake euphemism for nasty, indiscriminate sexual intercourse with multiple partners.

How much “sleeping” is going on with that behavior?


15 posted on 01/15/2024 10:16:08 AM PST by Gnome1949
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To: SeekAndFind

Makes sense. She can whore around and then marry her pimp in prison for conjugal visits.


16 posted on 01/15/2024 10:17:59 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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To: SeekAndFind

If she really wanted an honest answer, she would have asked Dr Laura.


18 posted on 01/15/2024 10:37:04 AM PST by eyeamok
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To: SeekAndFind

Frankly, I was surprised to see that Dear Abby still exists.

I read it was founded in 1956 by Pauline Phillips and is now run by her daughter, Jeanne Phillips.


19 posted on 01/15/2024 10:38:14 AM PST by Beowulf9
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To: SeekAndFind

29-years old?! WATCH OUT! The WALL is coming, and it’s going to slap you in the face!!!


20 posted on 01/15/2024 10:44:07 AM PST by oldplayer
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