You hold the person who makes the choice responsible.
Consequences are by far the best teacher and the best builder of good character.
I think they call that “tough love” . We have way too little of that and way to much of what I call “pathological compassion”.
That’s the type of compassion that ends up making things worse for both the giver and the receiver... as well as society as a whole.
We are living it.
Let me know where to start with the young generation.