I don’t know if I believe incels exist. If you don’t want to be celibate, isn’t calling yourself a bad strategy?
incel came from a group that used to be active on social media. Then it was banned in the purges and basically doesn’t really exist anymore as a major group. Now its a term of abuse used to refer to anyone who expresses an opinion against feminism or misandry or perceived loser men. Very few people actually openly identify as incels although actual incels in the dictionary definition are probably extremely common. More so among leftwing men ironically enough.
Misery loves company.
But it's also wise to take advantage of opportunities that may arise, however, infrequent and unlikely. Practice makes perfect, or something like that.