The inverse of that is:
He: How come you’re mad?
She: It’s obvious!
He: What?
She: Well, if you don’t know I’m not saying.
He: (silence)
She: If you don’t know what you did wrong I’m not telling you. I can’t believe you sometimes!! All wrapped up in your own little world and never thinking about anybody else, much less me. You can see that I’m mad and you don’t have the slightest idea why!! You could care less. You never listen to anything I say and that really hurts me. You .....
Could have been worse. One girl I dated would talk endlessly while I was driving. Then come up with “You’re not listening to me.”. At which point I repeated want she had said. Passed her office time.