Posted on 02/12/2022 2:00:47 PM PST by nickcarraway
Amber Pendlebury drew her final breath before getting a chance to meet her newborn son
This extraordinarily moving and heartbreaking image shows a mum in her last moments of life following a fatal heart attack, which struck shortly after giving birth to the son she will never meet.
Amber Pendlebury, 41, had baby Maxwell Lee under general anaesthetic but was put on life-support as soon as she woke up because she had suffered two rapid cardiac arrests.
Her mum, Vida Pendlebury-Atherton, 71, said she had been living through a “nightmare” following the tragic news of her daughter's death in early February.
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The former sales manager said that, days before her death, Amber had been very positive about her pregnancy and had “prepared everything” for the arrival of her third child.
But just after tiny Maxwell Lee was born, Amber cried out “I can’t breathe” and collapsed, before medics frantically whisked her away for emergency treatment.
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Previously healthy Amber passed away on February 1, with her grief-stricken mother still shocked at the nature and speed of her unfortunate death.
Vida said: “I just feel like it’s a nightmare and I’m going to wake up at some point. It’s so, so sad. How can a healthy person with a healthy pregnancy go to have a baby and not come out of it?”
Vida said it had been a wonderful surprise when she first found out that Amber, from Wakefield, was pregnant with her partner Ben Reeder, 36, in 2021.
She said that her daughter - who already had two children, aged 13 and 18, from a previous relationship - was well prepared for the arrival of her third baby.
Vida said: “At her age, we were really surprised, but then we were delighted. We found out it was going to be a little boy, and they were so looking forward to it.
"She prepared everything for him: a cradle downstairs and a cradle upstairs.”
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Amber was admitted to Pinderfields Hospital for the birth on January 25.
Vida said: “She was supposed to go in for a c-section in the morning, and when she got there, she decided she wanted to do a natural birth.
“So they induced her, but she’d been on the drip for the inducement for at least ten hours, and she was only 4cm dilated, which is not good.
“They later said they’d have to do a caesarian section, but said they’d have to put her to sleep while they did it.”
Vida said doctors were bringing the mum round when she had a series of sudden heart attacks and never caught a glimpse of her baby before she collapsed.
She said: “Doctors delivered the little baby, who was 6 pounds, 2 ounces. But she never saw him, as when she woke up, she said, ‘I can’t breathe, I can’t breathe! My chest is on fire, my chest is on fire!”
“That’s all her partner heard her say, and then she was whisked away.”
Vida said she got the news that her daughter was on a life support machine on January 26.
She said: “The first we knew that Amber was poorly was when we got a phone call to go up to the hospital as she was very unwell and wasn’t expected to last the night.
“That was about seven o’clock in the evening. It was unbelievable to get that news. It was like, ‘What’s happened?’”
Vida was the last person to leave her daughter’s bedside before medics switched off her life support machine a few days later.
She said: “There was only one day where we weren’t able to go because of Covid, but we saw her every day apart from that, and I was the last to leave her.
“I couldn’t stay and watch the machine be switched off. I just couldn’t do it, and it was so hard to leave her”.
Vida says she and her husband will now do what they can to support baby Maxwell Lee and his dad.
She said: “She loved him, and it’s only fitting that he should bring his little boy up. But obviously we’ll be there as grandparents to give help and advice.
“Max was my 19th grandchild, and we’ve had all those other births, and we just didn’t expect in this day and age that women die in childbirth. It just doesn’t seem right.”
An inquest has been launched following Amber's death, with a post-mortem investigation due to reveal the reason why the healthy mum passed away.
It's understood Pinderfields Hospital, where Amber was treated, is also conducting its own investigation.
The hospital trust has been approached for comment.
Now Vida is raising money, with the hope of reaching £3000, so that Amber can be buried in a cemetery close to where she lives.
Those that wish to donate can do so here.
All for a vax that doesn’t work.
I didn’t see anything about her getting the jab. Did I miss it?
It doesn’t say she was, but it is the U.K.
Let’s hope the undertaker rats out her condition.
Sounds like an amnionic fluid embolism, I’ve seen a couple in my career, one lived, one died. The stress of birth also can reveal hidden cardiac problems. Of course if you’re a hammer, the whole world looks like a vaccination. Giving birth is safer than ever, but it’s still dangerous, just try to buy life insurance when your pregnant.
Do actuaries consider lifetime potential pregnancies? Women still outlive men.
The LSM will NEVER link the jab with blood clots and heart attacks.
Sad. I know it happens....but really sad.
Having a child at 41 can be hard on anyone!!
Especially Kaitlyn Jenner. Oh, wait....hmmm.....
Yeah, my thoughts too. I’ve unfortunately been a part of a couple as well.
The transition from joy to horror really sticks with you.
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