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Correct Grammar: Should I use "you and me" or "you and I"?
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Posted on 12/12/2021 8:22:12 PM PST by SeekAndFind

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To: SeekAndFind

How very tragic that with the dumbing down of the U.S. educational system, English grammar is often lacking in the basic education. A hundred years ago students who had completed a decent 4th grade education knew and had internatlized the content of what is being taught in this posting. This was equally true of students from recent immigrant families in which the parents spoke no English and were poor and illiterate. This mistake would not have been made in either oral or written usage. They understood this as well as their arithmetic times tables.


61 posted on 12/13/2021 1:14:36 AM PST by Seeing More Clearly Now ( )
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To: SeekAndFind

There is a simple test. Answer the question in your head as if it were asked in the singular. If the answer is me, then that’s it, but if the answer is I then that’s it. But be aware that me and you is a frequent case of bad grammar in 21st Century America.


62 posted on 12/13/2021 1:15:46 AM PST by colorado tanker
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To: SeekAndFind

There is a simple test. Answer the question in your head as if it were asked in the singular. If the answer is me, then that’s it, but if the answer is I then that’s it. But be aware that me and you is a frequent case of bad grammar in 21st Century America.


63 posted on 12/13/2021 1:16:00 AM PST by colorado tanker
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To: SeekAndFind
“Me and her have nothing in common.”

NOW I’M TOTALLY CONFUSED

64 posted on 12/13/2021 1:33:17 AM PST by martin_fierro (< |:)~)
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To: SeekAndFind

Also, I would add, always put the other person first in the sentence.


65 posted on 12/13/2021 2:27:03 AM PST by Sloopy
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To: Bikkuri

The easiest way to sort out who vs. whom is to substitute “he” or “him”. You’ll know immediately which sounds right.


66 posted on 12/13/2021 4:09:18 AM PST by HartleyMBaldwin
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To: colorado tanker; RFEngineer

You and I
Are subject to
The blues now and then...

It just doesn’t sound right. Nor would Bo Diddley singing, “Whom do you love?”


67 posted on 12/13/2021 4:15:04 AM PST by HartleyMBaldwin
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To: TomGuy

Me Tarzan, you Jane.


68 posted on 12/13/2021 4:20:13 AM PST by Lisbon1940 (No full-term Governors (at the time of election))
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To: Bikkuri

Those are a little tricky sometimes for me too


69 posted on 12/13/2021 4:43:16 AM PST by nuconvert ( Warning: Accused of being a radical militarist. Approach with caution.)
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To: SeekAndFind

What about proper usage of “we” and “us”?

Or “they” and “them”...


70 posted on 12/13/2021 5:57:20 AM PST by trebb (Fight like your life and future depends on it - because they do.)
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To: SeekAndFind

You and I must make a pact to bring salvation back.


71 posted on 12/13/2021 6:01:39 AM PST by Rastus
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To: SeekAndFind

1. My friend and I went to the store.
2. I and my friend went to the store.

3. Me and my friend went to the store.
4. My friend and me went to the store.

1 and 3 sound right, 2 and 4 don’t.

I went to the store. (Correct English)
Me went to store. (Correct Tontoese).


72 posted on 12/13/2021 6:21:02 AM PST by Fresh Wind (Der impfstoff macht frei. The vaccine will make you free. Your papers, please.)
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To: Secret Agent Man

That’s what I was taught, too.


73 posted on 12/13/2021 6:22:48 AM PST by pnz1 ("These people have gone stone-cold crazy")
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To: Secret Agent Man

That’s the way I have generally made sense of this.


74 posted on 12/13/2021 6:23:57 AM PST by 1Old Pro (Let's make crime illegal again!)
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To: SeekAndFind

You should have learned this in early grade school.
Further proof we are producing generations of ignorant people.
The democrats will be in charge for a hundred years, or until the Chinese take over, which is coming.


75 posted on 12/13/2021 6:47:33 AM PST by oldbill
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To: SeekAndFind

I was never very good with grammer; there are rules upon rules with a whole list of exceptions. And proof is this thread and done get me started with what “sounds right”. What sounds right is what you often hear, which can be technically wrong.
Math is so much easier; the integral of sin x always is cos x.


76 posted on 12/13/2021 7:23:23 AM PST by jimfr
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RE: You should have learned this in early grade school.

Yes we should. But listen to today’s music and you’ll understand why the English language is changing rapidly in the United States.


77 posted on 12/13/2021 7:24:39 AM PST by SeekAndFind
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To: nuconvert

Agreed. It drives myself up the wall too.


78 posted on 12/13/2021 7:36:26 AM PST by BipolarBob (WHY are there no Democrats on Mt. Rushmore?)
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To: Secret Agent Man

Nothing grates on my nerves more than the basic grammar errors. The “I” and “me” usage is so easy to figure out but why the Hell aren’t kids taught proper English? I told my parents years ago that I could be on my death bed uttering my final words and they’d correct my grammar.


79 posted on 12/13/2021 7:37:54 AM PST by peggybac (My will is what I wanted. God's will is what I got.)
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To: peggybac

“Between you and me ...”

“You and I” are correct on the issue.


80 posted on 12/13/2021 7:42:01 AM PST by Theodore R. ( )
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