Devil’s advocate: if I somehow accidentally killed someone at the office and you do accept it was accidental, I would not demand or expect my wife and kids to wear hair shirts for the rest of their lives and do hourly self flagellation in repentance of my situation. I probably would from an emotional state but I wouldn’t demand or expect it from my kids.
I think Alec Baldwin being seen having a grand old time is unseemly especially given his supposed “inconsolable” state. It does make him appear utterly lacking in empathy, remorse, and even just good judgement. His kids though ... why should they have to hide in a basement?
I agree. The kids are off limits. The behavior of the adults is what I really have a hard time dealing with.