I refuse to pretend that this sort of aberrant behavior is completely acceptable. And I will not surrender terms such as “marriage” or “wife” to the pervs and their enablers.
I have known a few gay men, strictly by accident. I rented a room from 2 brothers, and one was married with a child. Soon after I moved in the married brother moved out. Came to find out it was because his brother was gay and he couldn't tolerate it. After that, the remaining gay brother only accepted other gays as renters. All but one were decent people and quite creative as well.
I let them all know that I wasn't gay, and that I didn't really approve of their sexual preference, but that I accept them as human beings. We got along fabulously actually. I didn't hate them, but I didn't condone them either. That was in Virginia. Got a contract to work in Chicago, mainly to have a good excuse to move.
I actually feel pity for these people, and I harbor no hate towards them for their sexual preference. However, I do not accept their preference as normal in any form or fashion. They are creations of God, so I leave it up to him as to how they will be dealt with when they are recalled from this life.
One thing I can't stand though is for the demands of the radicals within their group to try and force those who are not gay to accept them and their preference as normal. That I can never do, even though I remain tolerant of them.