In my experience, there was always a huge disconnect between the run of the mill gay person and those quasi fascistic activists. Those people not only want you to approve of their lifestyle, they want you to celebrate it. The average gay (again from my experience as I do have gay relatives and have worked with plenty of gays over the years) just wants to be left alone.
And what would you say to those who have testified that they have been cured? As for those who cannot be cured, there is alway moral control. This is true for both homosexuals and heterosexuals. By God’s grace no one need be a slave to his lust.