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Any miserable people here?

I was 47 in 2005. Was not miserable then. I've never been miserable.

Contrary to what many of you might think.

1 posted on 01/16/2020 3:00:45 PM PST by Responsibility2nd
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To: Responsibility2nd

And the reason would be???


2 posted on 01/16/2020 3:01:44 PM PST by SkyDancer ( ~ Just Consider Me A Random Fact Generator ~ Eat Sleep Fly Repeat ~)
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To: Responsibility2nd

I started being miserable in 2008, when Obama became president. I was 52.


4 posted on 01/16/2020 3:05:29 PM PST by kaehurowing
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Wow. 47 was my worst year ever. 50 may be good or bad. I’ll check back in after my surgery in a few weeks.


5 posted on 01/16/2020 3:06:14 PM PST by StolarStorm
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To: Responsibility2nd

The longest misery was 2008 to 2016.


8 posted on 01/16/2020 3:06:52 PM PST by bgill
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To: Responsibility2nd

The cited age was 47.2 years. I can verify this to be true, at least for me, and nearly to the day of being 47.2 years old. That was quite a while ago now, multiple years. I am no longer ‘miserable’ in the form I was then, but I’m not sure ‘content’ would be accurate for now either.

It’s a long road back when you get to that place where you are ‘miserable.’ It’s not a pleasant journey, even when things are steadily improving. If you’ve never been to that dark place, don’t just flippantly tell a miserable person to ‘be happy’. It doesn’t work that way. Even when there are many things to be happy about. There are demons to fight; and they can overwhelm you.

It’s an individual journey to purposely make the choice to find the good in situations, people, and most of all, yourself, to live a more satisfying life.


9 posted on 01/16/2020 3:11:36 PM PST by Reagan80 ("In this current crisis, government is not the solution to our problems, government IS the problem")
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Maybe many people experience the grief of parental death around 47? I know it made the last year very depressing for me, working through the grief.


10 posted on 01/16/2020 3:12:09 PM PST by ThisLittleLightofMine
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I was exactly 47.2 when I got married. How did they know? :)


13 posted on 01/16/2020 3:15:04 PM PST by Mr. Jeeves ([CTRL]-[GALT]-[DELETE])
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I don’t think that I’ve EVER been ‘miserable.’ Sad, due to circumstances, as when someone has died, but you can CHANGE just about any OTHER circumstance you might find yourself in.

If you are an American by birth, you’ve got NOTHING to be miserable about. Yeesh!


14 posted on 01/16/2020 3:15:12 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'hobbies.' I'm developing a robust post-Apocalyptic skill set.)
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I was miserable at 47 because we had a Democrat president and an incompetent head football coach at the University of Southern California.


17 posted on 01/16/2020 3:21:16 PM PST by Fiji Hill
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check out the life journey of rick allen... the drummer for def leppard...


19 posted on 01/16/2020 3:26:10 PM PST by heavy metal (your reward will be in heaven not on your paycheck...)
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A lot of Democrats seem to be perpetually miserable. They’re always whining and complaining about something. Nothing is ever good enough for them.


20 posted on 01/16/2020 3:29:45 PM PST by Starboard
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I reached my peak of miserablenes at around 19 and gotten better and better ever since. 47 is a cakewalk compared to 19.


21 posted on 01/16/2020 3:29:53 PM PST by TBall
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I most assuredly have not reached peak miserability yet, although I’m hoping to soon.


25 posted on 01/16/2020 3:39:34 PM PST by VTenigma (The Democrat party is the party of the mathematically challenged)
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To: Responsibility2nd
Never been miserable except short term directly in relation to immediate circumstances or events that were in themselves miserable ... but the misery passed when the miserable stuff passed.

I think it was Howard Roarke who said, or maybe it was out of Altlas Shrugged hence Cagney or Reardon or Galt ... "I suffer, but the suffering only goes so deep."

Now, if you're a journalist ... such a study makes sense. Since they are lefty and therefore miserable in general, as a way of life, then one might see a life long arc. For example, people who are bipolar tend to see a leveling off in their 30's. So in the sense that liberalism is a lifelong disorder - and certainly one could view it as a projection and externalization of an internal psycho/biochemical/moral/character state , it doesn't surprise me if they experience an arc over their entire lifetimes which is measurable even when divorced from direct life circumstances.

If we were to assume that normals experience of happy/sad is spread evenly across their lives, then we could do a thought experiment and probably assume that lefy misery is greater than what the study measured since it was diluted by the experience of the normals, likely the actual lefty misery measures are in fact about 33% greater than reported, and the study would have reflected a relatively more depressed version of mankind.

Hmmmm the more I think about that, the more that makes sense.

Good thinking Tiny!

Why thank you, Mr. Owl!

26 posted on 01/16/2020 3:40:54 PM PST by tinyowl
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I was miserable the years when Muschamp and Shark Humper were coaching at UF.


30 posted on 01/16/2020 3:44:59 PM PST by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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ping


31 posted on 01/16/2020 3:47:19 PM PST by Steely Tom ([Seth Rich] == [the Democrats' John Dean])
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Hmmm...
1. Your kids now have raging hormones at ages 11 - 14.
2. Wife decided she was done with “relations” because she delivered all the kids she was going to deliver.
3. Your back is shot and your golf score went to crap.


32 posted on 01/16/2020 3:48:34 PM PST by ProtectOurFreedom
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To: Responsibility2nd

I turned 47 in 2008. There are no coincidences.


35 posted on 01/16/2020 3:54:42 PM PST by BillyBonebrake
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47 is just on the cusp of mid-life crisis for men and menopause for women...generally speaking. As far as misery goes, there is plenty available at just about any age but fasten your seat belts for 60’s on up health-wise. Bod is like a car with 200,000 miles on it...and counting!


37 posted on 01/16/2020 3:57:24 PM PST by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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How old is Prince Harry. This guy is such a nut he posted a clip on Instagram with music from a famous Anti Monarch group who wrote a song about offing his Granny


38 posted on 01/16/2020 4:02:25 PM PST by RummyChick
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