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8 Ways Women Can Help Resurrect A Healthy Dating Culture
The Federalist ^ | 10/09/2019 | Suzanne Venker

Posted on 10/09/2019 9:05:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

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1 posted on 10/09/2019 9:05:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: MeganC

Ping!


2 posted on 10/09/2019 9:07:01 AM PDT by KC_Lion
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To: SeekAndFind

As the old saying goes....why buy the cow when the milk’s free?


3 posted on 10/09/2019 9:10:37 AM PDT by ealgeone
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To: SeekAndFind

Rule 8. Be a woman a man would want to marry. No man wants to marry a feminist or wacko liberal who thinks abortion is a beautiful thing.


4 posted on 10/09/2019 9:11:40 AM PDT by 2banana (My common ground with islamic terrorists - they want to die for allah and we want to kill them.)
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To: SeekAndFind

This article is quaint—the toothpaste is already out of the tube.

We live in Redpill world—that may not be what should be, but it is what the real world is today.

A woman who follows this advice won’t have to worry about relationships—the man she wants will be long gone after the second or third date.

But—experimentation is good. Women should try it—and see what happens...


5 posted on 10/09/2019 9:12:47 AM PDT by cgbg (Vote Trump or you will _be_ Trump)
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To: SeekAndFind

“Rule 6: Don’t have sex with him on the first, second, or twentieth date.”

Or after you are married.


6 posted on 10/09/2019 9:13:07 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: SeekAndFind

Sounds like right smart advice to me.


7 posted on 10/09/2019 9:16:25 AM PDT by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith...)
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To: SeekAndFind

“In the 1950s, that oft-ridiculed era when women all over the country were purportedly miserable..”

People who believe that dreck didn’t live through that era.


8 posted on 10/09/2019 9:17:07 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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Rule 6: Don’t have sex with him on the first, second, or twentieth date.

Great advice. That way he won't know you're a tranny until the wedding night.

9 posted on 10/09/2019 9:17:44 AM PDT by Billthedrill
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To: SeekAndFind

Don’t visit, or return to Matt Lauer’s hotel room repeatedly, after six vodka shots?


10 posted on 10/09/2019 9:17:53 AM PDT by Fireone (Build the gallows first, then the wall!)
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To: SeekAndFind

It really is a two-way street.

These rules aren’t a bad idea for women. But, in a vacuum, I think they are doomed to failure.

Men need to make changes too. Be more Alpha. Be a leader, a breadwinner, and a gentleman. If men want to focus on professional sports, video games and the internet, then they aren’t going to be marriage material.

We need a cultural revolution which fixes everybody.


11 posted on 10/09/2019 9:19:09 AM PDT by ClearCase_guy (If White Privilege is real, why did Elizabeth Warren lie about being an Indian?)
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To: Fireone

“Don’t visit, or return to Matt Lauer’s hotel room repeatedly, after six vodka shots?”

Rule 9, right?


12 posted on 10/09/2019 9:19:56 AM PDT by catnipman (Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: cgbg
"...the man she wants will be long gone after the second or third date..."


13 posted on 10/09/2019 9:20:01 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: cgbg
This article is quaint—the toothpaste is already out of the tube.
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A woman who follows this advice won’t have to worry about relationships—the man she wants will be long gone after the second or third date.

Not for all. For one thing, Mrs. Sivana followed these rules (and more!). Basically, you have to find the subset of men or women you need to meet (for many, Church is a good place), and start there, instead of worrying about society at large.

By the way, her two sisters are also happily married to good men. That is DESPITE the fact that one sister had been in a convent for fifteen years before problems in the order forced her to leave, and the other had health issues that made he not consider marriage until she was in her 30s.
14 posted on 10/09/2019 9:21:04 AM PDT by Dr. Sivana (Sutor, ne ultra crepidam--Appelles of Kos)
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If you are dating a tranny and don’t know it, having sex with him still won’t help you.

Because you are dang stupid!

15 posted on 10/09/2019 9:21:37 AM PDT by ConservativeMind (Trump: Befuddling Democrats, Republicans, and the Media for the benefit of the US and all mankind.)
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To: cgbg

The man you describe is a horn dog loser no woman should marry.

Is this you?


16 posted on 10/09/2019 9:22:43 AM PDT by ConservativeMind (Trump: Befuddling Democrats, Republicans, and the Media for the benefit of the US and all mankind.)
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To: metmom

The problem with the advice is that the guys women want will just move on to greener pastures, while the guys women don’t want will be happy to stick around....until the woman tires of them.


17 posted on 10/09/2019 9:23:20 AM PDT by cgbg (Vote Trump or you will _be_ Trump)
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To: SeekAndFind

Really they need one rule: Commit yourself to destroying feminism and rolling back all the damage its done to our society, so men might get interested in dating/marriage again.


18 posted on 10/09/2019 9:24:12 AM PDT by Boogieman
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I am a happily married old timer who didn’t have to deal with the modern cultural scene.

However, I harbor no illusions about what it is like for younger people out there—young guys who are not Redpill get burned—every time.


19 posted on 10/09/2019 9:25:09 AM PDT by cgbg (Vote Trump or you will _be_ Trump)
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To: cgbg

This article is laughable on so many levels its hard to find a place to start.

But the best rule: Realize presence does not equal participation.

As long as women think modern dating is an exercise in unrealistic expectations and paradox of choice, expect men to exit the dating scene in droves.

Highlight excessive travel and alcohol consumption....expect to be considered high maintenance, high expense and no return on investment. Time and money.

Have a list of 10, 20, 30 inviolate demands where attainment of 9, 19 or 39 is a no-go....be prepared to acquire another box of wine, another cat and spend another weekend alone.

Withhold sex you gave away to the last 30 or 40 guys and make the new guy work and pay for what you gave away for free....don’t expect to be shopping for another wedding ring any time soon.

The juice is no longer worth the squeeze except on the most temporary basis......


20 posted on 10/09/2019 9:25:55 AM PDT by txeagle
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