It is never beyond your/our choice.
That’s just an excuse to throw another baby on the funeral pyre of Child Sacrifice to the god of selfishness.
In other words, murder.
Yes, but it takes two to murder with a woman. Women are feminine for the most part, thus non confrontational, and they cannot do a crime by themselves.
Men who abandon pregnant women should be just as well condemned , as well a sthe “doctor” abortion industrythat is run or supported by such male pimps.