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Why are men “afraid” of commitment?
A Voice For Men ^ | April 13, 2019 | John Davis

Posted on 04/18/2019 9:34:05 AM PDT by rickmichaels

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To: caww

There were different kinds of living situaions for different people.


221 posted on 04/19/2019 8:24:47 AM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftists totalitarian fascists appear to be planning to eradicate conservatives)
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To: Mr.Unique

Since I’m not the author, your comical point is moot.

I don’t doubt for a second, however, that the author has, unlike you, a proper understanding of the English language beyond the sixth grade and does not become confused when confronted with two entirely different words with entirely different meanings.

Please explain why you’re illiterate. Do you have a learning disability? Are you inherently ignorant? Are you lazy? Were you dropped on your head as an infant? Was your oxygen supply temporarily disrupted while you were still in the womb? Were you born stupid?

Please identify your problem.


222 posted on 04/19/2019 8:30:32 AM PDT by rickmichaels (I shouldn't have to press 1 for English)
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To: grey_whiskers
No, named myself in 2004 way before rational male became a thing. Keyser Soze was taken at the time unfortunately, so I had to be another bad guy who got away with it.
223 posted on 04/19/2019 8:33:43 AM PDT by rollo tomasi (Working hard to pay for deadbeats and corrupt politicians.)
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To: Mark17

Glued, baby!!! We Avs fans have waited years for this! Hockey heaven. Lots of great hockey and some serious surprises like the TB bracket basher.


224 posted on 04/19/2019 9:34:35 AM PDT by Yaelle
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To: cuban leaf

Well, your case (if true) is a one in a million example. We need her story.

Just accept that men are basically always at fault. And therapists are always balanced, just like the courts.


225 posted on 04/19/2019 9:35:35 AM PDT by polymuser (It is terrible to contemplate how few politicians are hanged today. - Chesterton)
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To: rickmichaels

Because a psycho wench acts super nice like a cat in heat, gets herself pregnant, then the demons come out and she owns the man for 18 years.


226 posted on 04/19/2019 9:37:11 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (...the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by Whom the world has been crucified to me.)
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To: BobL

You’re being logical. Stop that! Use your emotions, like school teachers direct.


227 posted on 04/19/2019 9:39:40 AM PDT by polymuser (It is terrible to contemplate how few politicians are hanged today. - Chesterton)
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To: KC_Conspirator
Sheryl Sandberg, Fbook CEO, confirming modern day unrestrained hypergamy. - “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”

Her assumption is that, after the woman has screwed all the bad boys, and decides it is "time to settle down" (probably at 39, when the bad boys have moved on to younger candidates), that the good men she rejected in her 20's and early 30's in favor of the bad boys, will have any interest in her high-mileage self.

Many women are disappointed to discover that the probability of ever finding somebody interested in marrying them, drops precipitously after 30. There is a reason for this. A man wants to marry in order to be a father (otherwise, why not just keep dating). A women is more suitable as a mother-candidate at the beginning of her fertile period then when her fertility is almost depleted.

228 posted on 04/19/2019 9:52:48 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: Ikeon
to fix this, stop treating every divorce like a domestic violence case and stop giving women the bunk of the estate.

You want to fix marriage, you need to start by fixing divorce. If women did not stand to get "cash and prizes" in divorce court, they would be far less likely to divorce.

In Islamic countries, in divorce the man gets the kids, the man gets the assets, the woman gets an amount that was decided upon at marriage time (and no more).

If women don't watch out, there may come a time when men decide "Why oppose Islam?"

229 posted on 04/19/2019 9:57:45 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: DungeonMaster

“Because a psycho wench acts super nice like a cat in heat, gets herself pregnant, ——————”


Wow,she gets herself pregnant.

Looking forward to your explanation of how that’s done.

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230 posted on 04/19/2019 10:01:54 AM PDT by Mears
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To: CH3CN
I get tired of all this “men lose everything” theme. I got divorced from a man who was violent and lazy. He “dropped” me and 2 small boys off in a state 900 miles from home with 2 suitcases and some change in my pocket (he even took my purse). He kept the house, bank account, tools of my employment, 2 vehicles, the boat and camper (all of which I had paid for.) I picked tomatoes for a whole summer to get enough money to return to my original home state to start over again. It took me 2 years to find the son of a gun in order to serve him divorce papers, as he had sold everything and moved in with whomever was his newest girlfriend at the time.

You point out an essential truth.

NICE guys lose everything, because the women knows she can destroy him without risk to herself. Often, being the un-suspicious sort, he won't even see it coming, and when it happens he will be too nice to fight for his rights.

Meanwhile, if the guy is a complete SOB, willing to rip her throat out, he will make out OK.

231 posted on 04/19/2019 10:03:35 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: faithhopecharity
But, just as soon as the women arrived in USA...they changed. They started making demands for more and more material goods and fancier houses and cars, and within a couple of weeks they had “stocked up” on charge cards, not just Visa and Mastercard but also some of the fanciest (most expensive) department stores like Sax, Nordstroms, Nieman Narcus. Unhappiness ensured with divorces not far behind. Whatever this “American social disease” is, it is catching and it spreads very quickly

No, they didn't change. Women everywhere want as much as they can get away with. The only difference is that in the old countries, they could not get away with what they can do here.

232 posted on 04/19/2019 10:06:37 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: faithhopecharity
But, just as soon as the women arrived in USA...they changed.

"Eddieeee, I want to talk to yoooooooooo!"

233 posted on 04/19/2019 10:08:59 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: PapaBear3625

You are correct in everything you said. What Sandberg said is terrible relationship and life advice for women. Yet, that is what is being sold and pushed in almost every corner of our culture now.


234 posted on 04/19/2019 10:19:09 AM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: Mears
Wow,she gets herself pregnant. Looking forward to your explanation of how that’s done.

As in, she deliberately deceives him, telling him she's on birth control, while trying hard to get pregnant by a guy who she can hit up for child support payments.

You think that scenario never happens?

It used to be in many states that children born outside marriage were ineligible for child support. This created a strong incentive for the woman to want marriage before sex. Then the Supreme Court struck that down.

235 posted on 04/19/2019 11:34:01 AM PDT by PapaBear3625 ("Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities." -- Voltaire)
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To: Chode

“three scariest words in the english language, I’M NOT HAPPY!”

The three most dangerous words for children are “Mommie has a new boyfriend”.

1997 I worked a child murder case. Boy 2.5 years old was scalded by ‘mommie’s boyfriend’ babysitting him while she was out. Perp said he was “punishing him” for “soiling his diapers” so he dunked him in a tub of hot water. My partner interviewed the boy in an OKC hospital and lamented about how all the boy said was “daddy did this to me” saying how the boy just said it over and over and that he didn’t know how he’d put that in his report. The boy subsequently died from bacterial infection. I said to my partner, “so the boy says ‘Daddy did this to me’ and you don’t know how to write that in your report? I told him to write it as the boy’s statement in quotation and write it out the same amount of times the boy said it -eleven times.

The Perp was convicted. I forget the sentence but the Army doesn’t play with murder convictions. I’d have locked the bitch up too.

The moral of this child’d death is: would the father have allowed ANY of this to happen?


236 posted on 04/19/2019 12:41:18 PM PDT by Justa
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To: PapaBear3625

Hummmm? Could be


237 posted on 04/19/2019 1:37:31 PM PDT by faithhopecharity ( “Politicians are not born; they are excreted.” Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 to 43 BCE))
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To: PapaBear3625

“As in, she deliberately deceives him, telling him she’s on birth control, while trying hard to get pregnant by a guy who she can hit up for child support payments.”

OK,so she has sexual intercourse for the privilege of being pregnant for 9 months,going through childbirth, and raising a child for 18 years -——just to collect child support payments.

Why is the man having intercourse?

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238 posted on 04/19/2019 3:05:34 PM PDT by Mears
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To: Mears

“Why is the man having intercourse?”

Exactly. Now you understand MGTOW and Red Pill. Good.


239 posted on 04/19/2019 3:16:00 PM PDT by polymuser (It is terrible to contemplate how few politicians are hanged today. - Chesterton)
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To: Justa

one behind the ear...


240 posted on 04/19/2019 3:23:50 PM PDT by Chode ( WeÂ’re America, Bitch!)
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