>>A culture of consent, one woman argues, should be less about self-protection and more about genuine care for the other person.
>>Because I don’t think many of us would say yes to the question “Is it O.K. if I act like I care about you and then disappear?”
The feminists created this kind of “male’. Single moms raised him to distrust his father—if he even knew his father because his mom was a cheap hook-up like this Tinder date and author. Schools stigmatized him and possibly drugged him for his masculine actions. Media declared him to be a rapist if he acts aggressive. The legal system will destroy his life over an accusation. Now they don’t like what they made?
So the guy gets free sex from gullible females. What’s new about that? He’s just using the “consent” angle because it’s the latest fad among clueless American women.
So once again, doing what the woman wants is not enough... it has to be done for the right reasons, or else he is still wrong.
(And then, of course, when he does all the right things, and they are all done for the right reasons... then she decides she wants something different, disposes of him, and finds another to use and criticize while doing it.)
As I read the article (which wasn’t easy, mind you), I kept thinking she was literally getting what she and so many other women have demanded be given to them. Asking for things should always be looked at long-term... She sounds as if she’s desperate for a real relationship and yet thinks sex first is the way to do it. Sexual contact with another person absolutely changes everything. So many people do not get that...