Vermont Lt,
I have experienced someone with ALS dying. It’s probably the worst disease a person can live/die with in my opinion. I failed to specify that it’s my brothers family that is evil and mean spirited. I had tried to reach out to my brother multiple times and no response. I’m guessing that he was unable to move his arms at that point, unable to answer the cell phone. Certainly would have made the attempt to visit for sure. The community they live in is not the greatest area of Atlanta and even when I was visiting regularly getting past security was a struggle. I admittedly did not call the in-laws because of how they are. I without question wouldn’t have thought of brining my kids to visit with him as the family is a bunch of pot smoking, alcohol drinking people who rely on the government for their paychecks.
I understand your post but I was only trying to specify one thing that was made abundantly clear by my brothers family. We are not welcome at the funeral and they want nothing to do with any of the family, including Uncles and Aunts. This is political in my mind due to the arguments from the Obama loving, Hillary voting family members who unfriended, blocked numbers etc from all the family members who showed support for our POTUS.
That is all. I wish you a good day.
I apologize to you and the group for being insensitive to your recent loss.
I still have my brothers and I cannot imagine anything getting between me and them in a similar situation. But every family is different.
Forgive me for causing you more pain. I should have come with a better way of writing that.
Thank you for a measured response.