Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

Say Yes to the (Communion) Dress? How the bridal trend popularized by a reality show has [tr]
UK Daily Mail ^ | April 10, 2018 | Sheila Flynn

Posted on 04/10/2018 11:19:15 AM PDT by C19fan

Olivia Montellese stands on a raised dais in the middle of a bright room, surrounded by gleaming gowns, and smiles as she models an elegant white dress for her godmother, mother and two grandmothers. The women ooh and ahh as she twirls and poses, and – after deciding on a veil and matching shoes – Olivia happily holds up a flowery sign on a bejeweled stick proclaiming ‘I Said Yes To The Dress!’

They all snap pictures excitedly before Olivia retires to a special-arranged vanity in the middle of the boutique showroom, posing for more photos in a white satin robe. But the back of the robe does not read ‘Bride’, as the scenario suggests; instead, it’s emblazoned with ‘Communion Girl’, and Olivia is just seven years old.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Religion; Society
KEYWORDS: catholic; communion; dress
Turning another sacrament into a look at me moment. These families seem to be ones who will take their daughter to first communion and that will be the last time.
1 posted on 04/10/2018 11:19:15 AM PDT by C19fan
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | View Replies]

To: C19fan

C19fan wrote:
Turning another sacrament into a look at me moment. These families seem to be ones who will take their daughter to first communion and that will be the last time.

You may be correct, but possibly her sponsors wanted to convey the importance of the occasion? Ultimately, the most important thing a seven year can do is to receive the Most Holy Eucharist.

I am not being argumentative, as I suspect the kid is entirely clueless - I’m just hoping against hope...


2 posted on 04/10/2018 11:30:20 AM PDT by heterosupremacist (Resistance to tyrants is obedience to God. - (Thomas Jefferson)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

.
“Communion” is nowhere to be found in the word of Yehova.

Its a human invention.


3 posted on 04/10/2018 11:35:20 AM PDT by editor-surveyor (Freepers: Not as smart as I'd hoped they'd be)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

We have communion the first Sunday of every month, no special dresses or clothes needed.


4 posted on 04/10/2018 11:43:58 AM PDT by Midwesterner53
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: heterosupremacist

——Ultimately, the most important thing a seven year can do is to receive the Most Holy Eucharist.——

I think it’s vastly more important she understands what communion means, which at seven years old I doubt she does...

Infant baptism is another odd RC tradition...


5 posted on 04/10/2018 11:47:11 AM PDT by Popman (Wisdom is not what you know about the world but how well you know God. 8)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: Midwesterner53

We have communion the first Sunday of every month, no special dresses or clothes needed.“

Wow, naked communion. Which church is that?


6 posted on 04/10/2018 11:52:45 AM PDT by Mercat
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 4 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

Child abuse.


7 posted on 04/10/2018 11:55:52 AM PDT by wastedyears (Americans are dreamers too.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

A $189 tiara?! Communion dresses costing four figures?!

Parish priests are putting up with this kind of display? Where are the sermons on pride, avarice, envy...


8 posted on 04/10/2018 12:01:32 PM PDT by mewzilla (Has the FBI been spying on members of Congress?)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: heterosupremacist

I obviously don’t know what this is about, except being a religious occasion.

It is a belief in Judaism to do a mitzvah (a commandment of G-d) as nicely as it can be done, within reason.

A nice dress seems the right idea, from a Jewish perspective.


9 posted on 04/10/2018 12:02:42 PM PDT by Jewbacca (The residents of Iroquois territory may not determine whether Jews may live in Jerusalem)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: heterosupremacist
You know what this day is about, right?’ she asks her daughter – who shrugs.>/i>

Thre's your answer, I think.

10 posted on 04/10/2018 12:04:50 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Jesus, my Lord, my God, my All.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: editor-surveyor; C19fan

Hehe. Neither is “Yehoba.”


11 posted on 04/10/2018 12:05:30 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Jesus, my Lord, my God, my All.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 3 | View Replies]

To: Jewbacca; Mrs. Don-o

I think it is what is “within reason” that is being discussed. In my opinion, that’s a personal choice. However, the social media aspect of it seems intended to emphasize the conspicuous consumption, which would not be the case if the child simply wore the dress to the ceremony.

I wouldn’t know a $1,000 dress from a $100 dress from a great find at the thrift store.


12 posted on 04/10/2018 12:15:46 PM PDT by Tax-chick (I have the easiest life in the history of the world.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 9 | View Replies]

To: Tax-chick; Jewbacca
Our parish has discussed --- but not settled on --- an approved choice among 3 quite simple white dresses, similar to the range available for the school uniform.

One thing the parish did make a ruling on was "no make-up." It was turning into a fashion display, like those poor little tiara-crowned beauty contestants being pushed out into catwalk modeling pageants.

The mothers do this to them. Especially (I regret to observe) the Hispanics.

Our Asst. Pastor, Fr. Jesus, remarked that he'd like to put limits on the Quinceaneras as well, but he doesn't want to risk civil war among the moms!

13 posted on 04/10/2018 12:48:31 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Whatever is pure, anything of excellence, anything praiseworthy ---keep thinking about these things.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 12 | View Replies]

To: Mrs. Don-o; Jewbacca

I’ve seen some mighty fanciful dresses, but no makeup. That said, one can’t tell the cost just by looking: you can get frou-frou frocks at Burlington Coat Factory or the flea market for under $40.

My pastor doesn’t allow Quinceaneras in our church, although he’ll give a recognition and blessing during Mass. The families (and the musicians, *sigh*) have to go to other parishes. I realize that’s probably not an easy thing in your area, but we’re kind of near the Big City.


14 posted on 04/10/2018 1:09:54 PM PDT by Tax-chick (I have the easiest life in the history of the world.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 13 | View Replies]

To: C19fan

I remember vividly my first communion and wearing that white dress and veil.

They should have let us kids taste the host before the big day. I found it tastes like cardboard and actually took it out of my mouth.


15 posted on 04/10/2018 2:20:37 PM PDT by Moonmad27
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: mewzilla

Even Christening dresses aren’t immune....

http://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/1067245/ridiculously-over-the-top-christening-gowns


16 posted on 04/10/2018 2:25:41 PM PDT by dfwgator
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 8 | View Replies]

To: Mrs. Don-o

.
Yea, only about 1600 times!
.


17 posted on 04/10/2018 3:12:05 PM PDT by editor-surveyor (Freepers: Not as smart as I'd hoped they'd be)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 11 | View Replies]

To: editor-surveyor

Since you’re presumably referring to the Tetragrammaton which is never pronounced, surely you’ll admit that you transliterated the consonants and added the vowels?


18 posted on 04/10/2018 3:42:57 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 17 | View Replies]

To: Mrs. Don-o
Our parish has discussed --- but not settled on --- an approved choice among 3 quite simple white dresses, similar to the range available for the school uniform.

That is a great idea!

19 posted on 04/10/2018 6:10:23 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (We're even doing the right thing for them. They just don't know it yet. --Donald Trump, CPAC '18)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 13 | View Replies]

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson