[OrangeHoof]

The most beautiful woman I have ever met in my entire life (a bartender with Playboy Playmate good looks at my favorite stopover) once silently stood there and then leaned confidentially over to me and asked if she still had “it”.

This was a married mother of two turning 30 who was still the epitome of “drop dead gorgeous” and she was bewildered that I was the only man at her bar. Once I figured out what she meant, I said “oh, definitely! Trust me, if the day comes that you aren’t sure, just come to me and I will set you straight.”

Next thing I knew, she had raced from around the bar and clenched me in a big hug. To me, the thought of *this* lady, of all people, being insecure about her looks made me fear for the 99% who look worse.

[Teacher317]

The most beautiful woman I have ever met in my entire life

It is sad, the way that women obsess over every imperfection and hold themselves to impossible standards, guaranteeing disappointment in themselves for the majority of their lifetimes.

And it is the simply beautiful women who sincerely have no clue how beautiful they are that rocket themselves into the stratosphere of amazingly beautiful. 99% of the time, they are even more beautiful on the inside. (The insecure who need constant validation of their beauty... not quite the same thing.)

Ladies, for men to be interested in you, they really only need 3 aspects to be able to relish and adore. Just 3. Trust me on this. When you look in the mirror and overlook your 27 positive attributes to obsess over the 3 imperfections, you do yourself a disservice.

[sparklite2]

In my work life I experienced the rarity of being around a woman who was beautiful and she didn’t know it. She amazed all the guys. Never saw the combination of those traits again.