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In wake of Weinstein, men wonder if hugging women still OK
Associated Press ^ | Dec 4, 4:28 PM EST | By JOHN ROGERS

Posted on 12/04/2017 1:37:45 PM PST by sparklite2

LOS ANGELES (AP) -- Steve Wyard thought he knew what sexual harassment looked like: a put-out-or-lose-your-job overture. Now he's not so sure.

"Have we gotten to the point now where men can't say, 'That's a nice dress' or 'Did you do something with your hair?'" says the veteran sales associate for a Los Angeles company. "The potential problem is you can't even feel safe saying, 'Good morning' anymore."

But he says his wife, the CEO at a health maintenance organization, got a complaint from a woman just last month who believed a fellow employee was getting too personal. "It turned out the guy thought he was just saying, 'What did you do over the weekend?'" Wyard recalls his wife telling him.

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TOPICS: Business/Economy; Society
KEYWORDS: assault; fake; fakenews; genderwars; metoo; weinstein
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1 posted on 12/04/2017 1:37:45 PM PST by sparklite2
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To: sparklite2

Sure is OK.
However, one must only hug REAL women, not liberal ones.


2 posted on 12/04/2017 1:40:03 PM PST by Da Coyote
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To: sparklite2

Memo to Fox....make sure NOT to tell Shepard Smith his dress looks OK.


3 posted on 12/04/2017 1:40:34 PM PST by RckyRaCoCo (FUMSM)
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To: Da Coyote

i am not liberal and don’t want any man hugging me that is not my husband or a son in law. No thanks.


4 posted on 12/04/2017 1:49:23 PM PST by ronniesgal (still winning !!)
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To: sparklite2

Good morning is perfectly fine. Hugs - not OK unless she asks for one. This has been the case in the private workplace for quite a while. I guess liberals thought they were exempt.


5 posted on 12/04/2017 1:50:09 PM PST by colorado tanker
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To: sparklite2

Men and women should wear policecams during any interaction.


6 posted on 12/04/2017 1:50:34 PM PST by Lexington Green (Sun Tzu Trumps Saul Alinsky)
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To: colorado tanker

How about “Your hair looks nice?”


7 posted on 12/04/2017 1:51:22 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: sparklite2

The only women I hug are my wife and my relatives, longtime friends, and some of the older ladies at church. I would never hug a co-worker.


8 posted on 12/04/2017 1:51:31 PM PST by Sans-Culotte (Time to get the US out of the UN and the UN out of the US!)
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To: colorado tanker

I think it would be unusual. Nevertheless, someone you consider a work-friend, someone you haven’t seen in a while, someone who is going away. Even then, has to be a bit of a stand-off hug. No chest contact. But what the hell, that’s just the way guys hug anyway. Little reach around and pat on the back a couple times.


9 posted on 12/04/2017 1:52:56 PM PST by ichabod1 (Smoke does not mean fire when someone threw a smoke grenade.)
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To: sparklite2

In thirty years of work situation, I think I hugged a woman once, possibly twice. Once on the death of a coworker and, if I recall, when a good friend was leaving the job.

There’s a non-verbal, body language discussion about whether a hug is appropriate or not. Hugger one opens his/her arms and cocks his/her head. Hugger two either steps into the hug, or not. If not, Hugger one drops his hands and no more is said.

I am sure there are lots of situational variations, but you can be pretty safe with that one.


10 posted on 12/04/2017 1:54:05 PM PST by Gen.Blather
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To: sparklite2

If you only treat them as a worker and refuse to interact with them in any kind of personal way, the chicks will pop a critical vessel.


11 posted on 12/04/2017 1:54:22 PM PST by DesertRhino (Dog is man's best friend, and moslems hate dogs. Add that up. ... we.)
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To: sparklite2

Yup. The more I know people, the better I like dogs.


12 posted on 12/04/2017 1:54:28 PM PST by llevrok (Swamp nothing! Give Washington DC an enema !)
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To: Lexington Green

Bodycam/Entry Badge combination! That’s what we need these days.


13 posted on 12/04/2017 1:55:00 PM PST by ichabod1 (Smoke does not mean fire when someone threw a smoke grenade.)
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To: DesertRhino

"What are you so aggravated about?"

"I spend an hour putting on make-up,
coordinating my pants and blouse
and doing my hair.  And l had barely
got out the front door when some
strange guy harassed me!"

"Wow.  What did he do?"

"He noticed!"

14 posted on 12/04/2017 1:55:31 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: sparklite2

Men should not be allowed in the workplace. It is just too dangerous.


15 posted on 12/04/2017 1:55:36 PM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (<img src="http://i.imgur.com/WukZwJP.gif" width=800>)
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To: sparklite2

.
I’ll continue to take my chances!
.


16 posted on 12/04/2017 1:57:41 PM PST by editor-surveyor (Freepers: Not as smart as I'd hoped they'd be)
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To: sparklite2

Complementing the wrong female can now be sexual harassment. Is it any wonder why internet porn has grown in popularity?


17 posted on 12/04/2017 1:58:03 PM PST by drypowder
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To: editor-surveyor

“I’ll bet you get slapped a lot.”
“Yeah, but I get ....”


18 posted on 12/04/2017 1:58:51 PM PST by sparklite2 (I hereby designate the ongoing kerfuffle Diddle-Gate.)
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To: Blue Jays

All coworkers receive the same businesslike handshake.
Nothing more, nothing less. Gender does not matter at all.


19 posted on 12/04/2017 2:00:02 PM PST by Blue Jays ( Rock hard ~ Ride free)
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To: sparklite2

With everything going on today it’s best not to. I wonder how long it is going to be before men start acusess women of sexual harassment?


20 posted on 12/04/2017 2:00:35 PM PST by 2001convSVT (Going Galt as fast as I can.)
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