I will be the first to admit that clearly delineated moral choices can still be painfully complex where friendship is involved. One of the best friends I will ever have and a man I love dearly, former President Bill Clinton, has certainly taxed my feminist conscience, but always without diminishing my affection. I even helped write his apology to the nation for his own sexual misconduct, was sitting next to him when he delivered it, and believe to this day it was based on something that was none of our business. And yes, some may call it hypocriticalOf course she knew. But that was "none of our business". And guess what, ma'am. Your lecture in this column just met deaf ears. You are all about protecting the wymyns when it fits your agenda, which means you could give a flying rip about "the problem". If you don't care enough about it to make it a priority, I won't give it another thought.