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Teaching Kindness
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Posted on 08/19/2017 6:55:06 AM PDT by sodpoodle

WHAT YOU SCATTER

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.

'Hello Barry, how are you today?'

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?' 'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.' 'Good. Anything I can help you with?' 'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.' 'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.

'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it', said Miller.

'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.

When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado, but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed by her husband's casket.

Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved on to the casket Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their debt.'

'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ...'

With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

The Moral: ; We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself... ;

An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work.... ;

The fastest line at the grocery store...

A good sing-along song on the radio...

Your keys found right where you left them.

Send this to the ; people you'll never forget. ; I just did...

If you don't send it to anyone, it means you are in way too much of a hurry to even notice the ordinary miracles when they occur. ;

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED!

;

I know you'll have a few marbles to take!


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: humanity
Be Kind, Love your Fellow Man, Teach and Learn from each other.
1 posted on 08/19/2017 6:55:06 AM PDT by sodpoodle
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To: sodpoodle

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2 posted on 08/19/2017 7:02:22 AM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Thinking Caps are no longer being issued but there must be a warehouse full of them somewhere.)
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To: sodpoodle

A misty eyed morning. Thank you Sod.


3 posted on 08/19/2017 7:09:55 AM PDT by onona (Disappointments ? Well, life carries on so enjoy your allotted time here on this earth.)
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To: sodpoodle
God is love

Satan is hatin'.

Be careful whom you let in your heart for there your treasure and path lies.

4 posted on 08/19/2017 7:15:38 AM PDT by rawcatslyentist (TETELESTI Read em and weep Lucy! Yer times almost up.)
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To: sodpoodle

5 posted on 08/19/2017 7:59:23 AM PDT by bgill (CDC site, "We don't know how people are infected with Ebola.")
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To: sodpoodle

When I was kid in the Rosemont neighborhood of Alexandria, Virginia there was a Mom&Pop DGS grocery store. Owned by an immigrant family who lived on the upper floor, it was a required stop going to-from school. “Sy” the owner was always kindly to kids, allowing us roaming rights to discover so much stuff in equally small space. He also gave us more than a fair shake when redeeming pop bottles for their 2-cent deposit. Twenty-thirty cents was big money for kids and good business - “gute geschäfte” for him - we spent the proceeds on pogey bait in his store.
Last time through the area the store had become a wine & coffee shop. There went the neighborhood!


6 posted on 08/19/2017 8:51:38 AM PDT by Huaynero
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To: Huaynero
Right back at you. Except my "gotta stop or else" was the J&J Drugstore on Cedar Lane in Teaneck, NJ. The big attraction for me was their candy bars: five cents apiece or six for a quarter.

Amazing it's still there. My school, Roosevelt Elementary, was right up the street from there. Last time I was back there, the elementary school had become the Academy of Excellence and Greatness, an Islamic school.

7 posted on 08/19/2017 10:13:02 AM PDT by upchuck (Holding on to anger is like grabbing a hot coal to throw at someone. You are the one burned ~Buddah)
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