Here Here. Funny how this article became about how men and women relate and fight, not how they react to mindfullness meditation. I do think if those men commenting had of understood their females (which they seem to say is impossible) more, they wouldn’t have gotten yelled at as much, as well, maybe the females wouldn’t have bitched if the men were more gentle. Bad cycle, too bad cuz both have so many positive attributes. I liked the way the males said they “meditated”. Funny stuff.
I often wonder how Mr Persevero would react if I 1) cussed at him 2) called him a nasty name 3) threw something at him 4) had a road rage hissy ffitwith him sitting helplessly next to me while I drive like a maniac on purpose. With our kids in the car. 5) threatened to divorce him.
I’ve never done any of the above, not once. But I am sometimes accused of not letting things go. I find this unreasonable. The behavior above is plain old traumatizing and I’m not sure I’m a bad person for remembering.
Seems it's more this thread that got to be more about how men and women fight. There's plenty in the article about what they studied and observed about mindfulness.
Regarding that, my doctor prescribed mindfulness meditation, and it seems to actually help. I view myself as a normal guy otherwise--Maybe I'm not doing it right. ;)