[Tax-chick]

To me, “grandfather” and “boyfriend” shouldn’t refer to the same person.

[stormhill]

That’s been a pet peeve of mine for the longest. If you’re an adult, you should assume adult responsibilities. At 25 in a decent society one should be “husband” or “wife” not boyfriend or girlfriend.That’s absurd. At my age it’s just undignified.

OTOH, it makes perfect sense for someone who was just released from jail.

[Harmless Teddy Bear]

To me, “grandfather” and “boyfriend” shouldn’t refer to the same person.

I understand but what would you term him? A "Gentleman Caller"?