Churches are FEMINIZED. Men don’t like that, and many women who state they do, do not in fact.
Mosques are NEVER feminized.
If men won’t lead then the women will take charge. Men are to be the spiritual leaders of their families, but many (most?) who I know will not take on that responsibility. The moms end up disciplining their children and it extends to the church.
I prayed for several years for my husband to have a vision for our family and for God to give him a desire to truly lead his children. Praise God he answered that prayer. I never told my husbandry desire, it was entirely the work of the Holy Spirit. Now I no longer serve on church committees, he has taken on that role.
Feminization of the church is a big part of the attraction of Islam. Another factor is pride: people like to save themselves. All religions except for Christianity are merit based. Christianity alone offers grace through salvation alone. Nothing we can do would ever be good enough-it’s humbling to realize how weak and pathetic our best efforts are in the eyes of the Lord.
Islam feeds pride: sin is caused by external influences so it’s never your fault. It’s a whores fault for not wearing the hijab and so on.