Our society has few roles for most young men. They are desperate for meaning and meaning in Christianity is looked down upon from every source they are exposed to.
What they don’t know is that suicide bombers are mostly converts. These are people with no family and no clan. They are manipulated by experts and never left alone. They are even followed and encouraged on their final trip. The handlers are probably sociopaths who have become expert at maneuvering those with weak minds.
In a world that demonizes men and essentially matriarchal African American household, Islam raises the man up to head of the household, dominant force in the family.
He gets the stability of marriage and permission to have several wives versus multiple baby-mamas, plus authority to be the MAN.
Less discussed is the permission to beat them for disobeying him or cheating on him.
And he automatically has more social weight than them as a Muslim, whether or not he has a job.