that chick must be hotter than lava, because she’s a hot mess.
Here's the truth: ALL WOMEN ARE A HOT MESS. Every single one.
Any wrong that's ever been done to them during their life up to the point they've met and married us, becomes OURS to bear the burden of once we marry them. And then, any wrong WE do to them becomes ours too.
Do something wrong to a woman ONE TIME, and ten years later it's "you always do that!"
Every single husband reading these words KNOWS what I'm saying here is true. I've been married 30 years to the same woman and I'm here to tell you that marriage is HARD. Anyone who thinks "love is enough" to get them through marriage is kidding themselves. Seriously kidding themselves.
While some will perceive the above words as "knocking women" I'll also say that we poor men aren't any better. Frankly, it's a miracle the female of our species has anything to do with us because frankly speaking, left to our own devices, we men just don't do well on our own.
There are a number of books I've read over the years that I wish I had read 30 years ago, as they'd have prepped me for marriage far better than I was.
The first: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
Second, The Five Love Languages.
Third, The Five Languages of Apology.
Fourth, The Search for Significance
Fifth, Love and War.
And yes, daily reading from the Bible for the wisdom on dealing with life and God's other children (including your wife) is a must.