Pet loss can be a powerful thing and the loss of a companion pet is like a blow to our lives. We go crazy and miss someone who was always there for us.
This article answers what our pet could tell us if they could speak and they have much to teach us about life as about death.
And they will be around us even when we know they're no longer literally with us like before.
When we work through our profound loss, let's remember the joy they gave us in their short life on this earth.
I’m so sorry.
The missus and I have had a terrible season, first her mother passed the week after halloween, then we had to put down our australion sheperd, Flashy after Thanksgiving. Than saddly, the wifes father passed Christmas day. We are glad a new year has begun. Our faith is strong, our spirit is bouyed by our Shi Tsu Lily and the boys, Remington and Apollo, our Chihuahua pups.
I still think of all the pets I have lost over the years...
One particular cat named Vera who lived over 20 years.
And a dog named Mikey who was an amazing little guy.
I would not be able to relate to or truly trust a person who could not grieve over the loss of a beloved pet.
People who eschew the very idea of having an animal companion as too messy, too much work..etc are mysterious to me.
My current friends are a Border Collie named Freckles and a cat named Daisey.... such great pals :-)
It is a good article and gives hints as to how to cope with the loss of a pet and all of the things that they can teach us.
I have always been told by those supposedly in-the-know that when a pet passes, the very best thing to do is to start looking for a ‘replacement’. That has always worked for us. Simply the joy of seeing other happy pets who need homes can sometimes temporarily ease the pain. If you are lucky enough to find a good pet soon then the pain will diminish more rapidly.
Sorry for your loss.
I have an aging Chocolate lab who’s nearing the end of days. He has a great spirit, but the body’s breaking down. Not looking forward to the end, but I know he’s had a great run. I think he knows it too.
I’m going to send you a link by freepmail.
Our little furry companions work their way into our hearts in ways only they can. When they pass, the loss is devastating. Our 13-year-old Cocker is in generally good shape, but I know the clock is ticking. We just enjoy her now as much as we can.
Very sorry for your loss.
One thing that may help ease the grief...
Crossing Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of Heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water, and sunshine and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing: they each miss someone very special, someone who was left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body begins to quiver. Suddenly, he breaks from the group, flying over the green grass, faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into those trusting eyes, so long gone from your life, but never absent from your heart. Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together...
It does help a little...
Kara Kennedy—isn’t she a daughter of Bobby?
Just pretend your stupid dog was a human being in the womb. You’ll be laughing about her death in no time.
Losing your dog and best friend is indeed difficult. Most people won’t do this but the best way to heal the hurt is to get another puppy.