She went on to marry him.
I stopped reading there
Read on.. It is amazing the stupid things we do when we are young.
I’m sure every FReeper here was “young and stupid”.
Yep, me too.
Exactly. It’s another Lena Dunham. “I didn’t realize I was raped until a friend told me I might have been” Huh?
Honestly, I can understand this sad state of affairs.
A woman who hadn’t slept with a guy goes out with one she really adores. He drugs her and has sex, but she is fully aware of this happening. She won’t be believed, and her honor was taken. She won’t be wanted by another man now that she’s not a virgin, so rather than be an old maid, she feels it’s the only alternative. At least he will now have to take care of her, she thinks.
If she had told her parents, they would possibly have not believed her and/or punished her for allowing it (likely not thinking she was drugged).
As a man, I feel ashamed for what we put women through.
Yes, I am sorry, but either the story is not true, or she is so stupid that she is in no position to give anyone else advice.
She went on to marry him because she felt guilty for non existent feeling among women then that she was damaged goods. In addition, because it was not stranger rape brain chemicals forged a bond.