We stopped giving to food banks and the church “giving tree” a couple of years ago. When charities start asking for computer games instead of pajamas, we figured it’s time to spend our “charity” on our own children rather than those who vote against us election after election.
notice that Toys for Tots used to take used toys and suddenly they have to be basically new or hardly used in the original box....
what I do....give money to family members having a tough go but are trying....