I had a first cousin who was a real beauty. She was my same age and I really had this love/fear relationship with her. I wanted to have her but feared what would happen with both her and my family. There was just no reason to even get anything started there.
The “dumb” character on BECKER was telling her co-worker that her cousin was in town and he keeps wanting to do what they did once when they were young. Her co-worker told her she couldn’t do that. She said “I know. He lives 500 miles a way.”