18 years of child support payments impacts mens’ earning potential and lifestyles too.
They only get one time to decide if they “want” to become a father and that is when they consent to the sex act. Women can shirk their own responsibility to their baby up into the third trimester. In Europe they want to extend that out to several weeks/months after birth.
Which is why abortion cannot be a right. Rights have to apply equally to all citizens. The only remedy for men would be to enact a “legal abortion” where a man can renounce his paternity from the outset through the courts since he cannot compel a medical abortion upon the woman. Who’s for “equal rights?”