Caution: 2 families did this and I am not happy for them. They are making the best of it! Both advertised... medium sized dogs... when grown are over 60 lbs. They did not know to look at the puppies size of their feet. They do grow into those big feet!
How about a “breed” rescue group like Westie Rescue ( West Highland Terrier). I am sure there are others in your area like that. Usually full grown and even mature dogs who have lost their owners are cared for in private homes and you are the one interviewed. Seems silly, but they do get them placed well.
10 pounds and under are very tiny, over 20 and they are almost too big to lift constantly. Think a lot! Try not to let an aggressive dog choose you!!!
Some friends of ours who had dog-sat our greyhound decided to get their own dog. Unfortunately, instead of going to Greyhound Crossroads for a perfectly-trained retired racer, they let a vet friend talk them into taking an unknown-breed puppy. Cute little thing, about the size of a very large cat ... but now he’s over 130 pounds and impervious to all training efforts.
One morning earlier this year, he decided he wanted to see something up the street, and he pulled Joanne off her feet and down the sidewalk on her face. Why she didn’t “shoot, shovel, and shut up” at that point, I don’t know ...
I’ve had dogs most of my adult life, from puppies to older dogs. I am also a vettrinary assistant, though not active at the moment.
I appreciate your concern, though. I have always detested animal abuse, and feel as if the dog will pick me. Also, I feel bad that I can’t take a pit bull mix, as so many of them are available.
I’ve never met a dog (or cat) that didn’t like me. :o])