Maybe she is a Liberal Single Mom who has a six figure job only one kid who is already mostly raised who was conceived by her paying someone 10 grand to stick a turkey baster up her who-who because no man would have her and is a freeking cheapass liberal dirtbag!
That is my take.
Many servers are single moms. A lot of single moms are there because of their own bad decisions....but there are many who are there through no fault of their own.