I bailed a “friend” out once because his girlfriend (they had two kids) called crying that he was in jail for domestic violence and that she takes it all back.
He only threw the phone at me, I love him!
I had known them for many years and should have known better.
I was a fool to get involved.
I never saw them or my money again.
A few years back, I lent a “friend” a hundred bucks for groceries, as she was having a tough time.
I never in a million years, would have guessed she’d sell out our friendship over a hundred bucks, but she did.
She made all kinds of excuses, and then refused to return my calls.
I know right where she lives, and could confront her in person, but I chose not to, I just let the whole thing go.
She isn’t worth the effort it would take to hate her.
I do believe however, that what she did will come back to her one day.
Now, I lend money to no one.