I hope that you don’t read any comments people will post on here.
My mother is down right mean to everyone. She has to continually test our love. She is absolutely brutal with my Dad and he waits on her hand and foot. I know what you are going through.
My advice is don’t hold back. Be honest with what you say. Your mom will run over everyone if you don’t stand your ground.
My mistake was trying to stay above it all and let mom do and say whatever she wanted. I should have shut her down years ago and maybe Dad would have been treated better. No one in our family ever confronted my mom when she acted bad. Her grandchildren avoid her like the plague and she blames her sons and daughters-in-law for it.
Good luck. Turn off your computer because a whole bunch of self-righteous people are going to slam you hard.
I understand what you wrote here.
And you are right. ‘Pod.