Posted on 04/21/2012 12:42:50 AM PDT by mamelukesabre
I am a middle aged single guy with no ex wives and no kids. I've never been married and never knocked up no one. For the last 12 years I've been trying hard to find that perfect someone. You may remember me having threads on this very same topic. I recently had a couple of relationships with young asian girls and posted about it...only to have those threads yanked by the FR mods.
The asian girlfriend I broke up with and posted about is still around but we don't get along that well anymore. I found another asian girl younger than her but she is no longer in the picture. She decided I was too old. She probably had a point since she was only 26. Please see my previous threads about my physical fitness. I have been working my ass off to look 15 years younger than my age and I think I have pulled it off except for baldness.
Tonight I met a new girl and I am already in love. There is just one problem. She is a 20 year old law student from Estonia. She is short and chubby and wears very thick glasses. She is very old for her age if you know what I mean. I spent the evening dancing with and drinking with her friends.
We've already made arrangements for the future. I know I am a complete idiot. I can't help it. I will be working out extra hard now and suffering more from tendonitis than I ever have in my life.
I actually wish I really was making this up.
Flame away
The heart wants what it wants.
Good luck.....
Best wishes.
Peace and blessings.
Unfortunately for you men though the younger gals are often looking at you for your security. So you have your part to uphold.
There is nothing wrong with going for what you want in my opinion. You do however have to uphold what she is often looking to you for as well though and this may be why older men choose older women. (one of the many reasons as we are also more experienced in the sack and in the head and heart :-)
As someone who dated a man 12 years my senior for six years that started when I was twenty one, I can attest to the fact that his wealth and looks were factors. As soon as his belly showed up and his pocket book depleted and his chin show signs of drooping, I suddenly found men my own age interesting again. Just saying.
You also better be a good lover. Age and experience only keep a young girls interest for so long. Diamonds though are forever. haha.
You make me hate myself
My advice? Ride your horse and see where it takes you. If you continue to desire and can attract younger ladies then this is where you are at and it is working for you. Enjoy it and swallow it whole. It will take you where you need to go. Who knows where that is. In the interim just enjoy it. Get out of your head. Life is too short.
Why? There is nothing wrong with reality. Women are often attracted to money. Do we hate ourselves? No! haha. :)
Go for it, dude. You only go around once.
Good luck.
FRegards,
LH
Perhaps more “the crotch wants what the crotch wants” as logical thinking is absent.
Sounds like a shallow relationship on both sides. Bail when the other ain’t up to snuff anymore.
You need to guard this within yourself as well and realize one day she too will be older and aging. She will not be forever young and your fantasies need to be told this every once in awhile when your obsession for the youthful female take you over. They will all be older and aged one day.
That’s life.
I retired in 2010 and make more money now than when I worked, for various reasons. I have been divorced twice (they were so glad to get rid of me I never paid a cent in alimony). Since retirement I have dated quite a bit and recently met a 35 year old woman who I realized liked the money I spent on her, for fun. The other night she said the 27 year difference in our ages made no difference to her, could she move in with me so we could be together more? I quietly sipped my drink, set it down and looked her straight in the eye and softly said “ It would cut into my deep sea fishing trips too much.”
I’d love to have you educate us all about your dating and love history since your first crush. I bet there were a lot of attempt to date a chick because you found her hot. Or am I wrong?
All right. You should take that tendonitis seriously and modify your exercise routine to give your body time to heal.
As for your love life, best of luck.
all long term relationships are complicated. notice I was not married to the man. nor married him. i am married to day. that is a real relationship commitment. all the rest often are superficially based. that is why they don’t last a lifetime.
I think you're twenty days too late.
If you're serious, I have nothing to say except good luck, you'll need it.
I love a person that understand life and themselves more importantly and can articulate it. that to me is maturity. love it!!
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