“... whose mother shared that her younger sibling was aborted because “she” was such a difficult birth”.
Your post saddened me so much. It sounds like the “mom” told her daughter this info to blame her. She was the difficult birth so she was responsible for her baby brother or sister’s death. IMHO... the daughter is better off removing herself from her Mom.
agree with you 100% that type of mother is best left alone, some mothers deserve to be left alone and out of your life...