It’s obviously on her head here, but he also bears fault. He didn’t know this behavior pattern 4 years ago before bringing THREE children into the world? And yet he has 3 tiny children with someone that he has left and I’ll bet he left his children with her. Neither one of these two are a prize.
I agree. My heart breaks for the little ones. They’re the ones who ultimately pay for mom’s inability to grow up, and dad’s inability to see the truth about mom before it was too late.