Most women choose men, at least in part, based on their healthy appearance and ability to provide for their mate. Likewise, a man chooses a woman, at least in part, based on their healthy appearance and ability to bear children.
We’re hardwired to notice appearance, as are all sorts of species. It’s perfectly natural, although it can seem cruel to the unattractive who try to legislate it away.
I certainly don’t want to legislate it away. All that will do is force unwilling, attractive people to cohabit with the unattractive people, ultimately making the members of both groups miserable. I would rather work on becoming more attractive.