Sounds like your chilluns need some lessons on respecting and appreciating their mother. It is something that needs to be taught; it does not come naturally, as children are selfish by nature. I urge you to sit them down and calmly explain these things to them.
The baby appreciates me like crazy!
I’ll take this opportunity to recognize the outstandingly excellent OldTax-lady, who raised my brother and me almost single-handed (Dad was a Navy officer), and is now taking care of Dad, who has Alzheimer’s. Thanks, Mom, you’re a better tax accountant at 72 than I ever was!